Friday, January 25, 2013

Goodbye 20's, hello 30's

On this wintery snow day (sleet day?) the stars have aligned so that I may take some time to write.  Because of the weather I'm off work, not to mention Emma is actually napping.  A rarity indeed.

Today is a reflective kind-of day anyways, I have roughly 72 hours left of my 20's.  On Monday I'm turning the big 3-0.  I think it's ironic it should fall on a Monday.  A 20-something birthday on a Monday would've been total downer.  Who wants to celebrate on a Monday?  But my 30th, I'm too damn old and too damn pregnant to really care.

I'm not going to be one of those who freaks out about turning 30.  Age is just a number, right?  And what have I accomplished in my 30 years on this earth?  A wonderful husband, beautiful daughter, darling son on the way.  Blessings, so many blessings...

Some might think a career is of some importance, mine is almost a laughing matter, but I've never really cared about that anyways.  I'll get to it eventually, maybe when "Mommy" and "Baby Maker" isn't taking up so much of my time.

I guess what I'm reflecting on the most is how I've celebrated my birthdays through the years.  They always involved family, so many warm memories, homemade cakes, and treasured gifts received.  And let's not forget the parties with my school friends.  Slumber parties, parties at the Bowling Ally, all themed with horses or Barbies, no doubt.  Throw in the inevitable girl fight resulting in someone calling their mom to go home early, and you've got yourself a perfect 'tweeny party. Then there were the milestone birthdays, 13, 16, 18 being the highlights.  I remember them all and they were all very special.

Then there were the 20-something birthdays.  All these involved booze to an extent, probably to a very excessive extent.  (Oops.)  But they were fun nonetheless, after all, isn't that what being 20-something is all about?  I hope ye few readers I have remember helping me celebrate a birthday or two.  They were all a blast, even if the next day's hangover wasn't as much fun.

So what will I be doing on my 30th birthday?  I will be doing some things with my family (both extended and immediate) and have a special weekend planned with two of my closest friends & their families.  On my actual birthday (on Monday, blah) I might pop the top on an O'Doul's for old time's sake.  Actually, I might get more enjoyment out of a bottle of Tums, but that's just the pregnancy talking.  (My 20-something self would be so ashamed.)  Either way, no big blow-out for this one, and that's fine by me.


So, here goes nothing.  I raise my O'Doul's and/or Tums to you.  To my next 30 years.  May it be as full of blessings as my last 30 years.  Cheers!

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